Knowing when the time is right to kiss a girl can be a dilemma for some, if you move in too early she'll think you're needy and if you move in to late she could think you lack confidence to make the first move.
The key is finding the balance and making your move : )
Last night I was out coaching one of my Sydney bootcamps and I came across Emily, she is fun, single, loves sex (so she said) and adores guinea pigs, she has one now and his name is sparkles.
I love women who love animals, especially these little furry pigs and rabbits. In my earlier years working as a freelance magician-for-hire I've owned many rabbits, 2 died within the first 2 months and the rest ran away.
Sad news I know...
I took this as a sign that someone upstairs deemed it fit for me not to own any more animals.
Anyway back to Emily ...
I was making her giggle like a school girl for the first 5 minutes and I knew it was time to 'get serious' so I said I needed to ask her something important and dragged her away from her friends.
Emily being 23 years of age (same as me) gave me a stern look as though what I'm about to say was in fact important.
Alex: Hey can you take a genuine compliment?
Emily: Yes....of course I can (looking flattered)
Alex: good to hear...so can I! ...okay we'll take turns, you go first!
Emily: what??!! hahaha
Sometimes it helps to have a small arsenal of one liners up your sleeve...
Alex: If I was going to ask you on a scale of one to ten how good a kisser you are...what would you say?
Emily: hmmm....tricky.....I would say I'm an eight
Alex: whoa..someone thinks very high of themselves don't we....
Emily: what?! hahahah
Alex: okay...only a peck...no tongue lashing...
When the time comes to kiss a girl you'll have a gut instinct that NOW is the time...
There is no 'perfect' way to kiss a girl or 'secret' tactic I can teach you...
The line above works for me about 60/40 of the time... when I get a miss I shrug it off...and try again later.
The worst thing you can do is look taken back or REACTING to her not kissing you, if you look like you're pissed that she said no then you've LOST THE GAME.
Neediness is the #1 turn off...
Look like you don't care (don't say this) just give her a look like "haha you're funny...I know I'm going to kiss you later"
Practice doing this "LOOK"
It's very powerful not reacting to this...and you should practice giving women this look...
Here are a few top tips for kissing I suggest you follow for getting the kiss ...
Isolate Her & Get Her Alone ...
She'll be more up to kissing you if her friends aren't watching, she of course doesn't want to be labeled by her female friends as a 'dirty' flirt or kissing random guys...
So isolate her away from her friends simply by holding her hand and saying" hey let me borrow you for a second come over here I need to ask you something important"
Sit Down
She'll feel a lot more comfortable sitting down and kissing than standing up. Sit her down and look around occasionally to let her know she's not the most important thing int he room to you, make plenty of eye contact and sit REAL close to her
Eye Contact
IMPORTANT IMPORTANT IMPORTANT!
You must have good eye contact and avoid looking away. High status men are not afraid of making eye contact whereas low status males avoid eye contact for fear of being "found out". I'll explain this later.
Hold Both Her Hands & "Test The Water"
Test this to see how receptive she is to holding your hands, if she resits (even a little) then she;s not ready to be kissed.
If she's doesn't notice it or she's very touchy feel with YOU then move in now for the kiss!
Don't Hesitate
No time for rational thought here guys, just act on the instinct and go for it. It looks and feels so much more natural just going in for it as opposed to waiting 40 minutes to gauge whether she's ready...
Women like men who are spontaneous so don't hesitate when going in for the kiss...
If there's only one piece of advice you walk away from reading this then this should be it : )
You have to know when the moment is right. Like if the conversation stops, your eyes meet and neither of you seems to be able to look away, that is the perfect moment to kiss her.
So, you should take the opportunity to do so. If she is trying to get something out of her eye, or is talking about something that she feels really strongly about, don't kiss her and think that you are being spontaneous.
She'll probably wonder what possessed you to do so at such an awkward moment. After all, bad timing is not something that you want to be remembered for. : )
Don't ask For Permission
This is a no brainer ; )
Never ask a woman for her permission to kiss her. Despite what you might think, women, in general, like it when their man takes charge, especially during a passionate moment.
Asking for her permission will make you seem timid and unsure; not sweet and sensitive. So, be a man and kiss her.
Of course, before you do so, you must be sure that she wants you to. Check her body language: if her body is facing, leaning toward, or touching yours, and she is smiling, biting her lip, or playing with her hair, chances are that she's interested in you.
So, pick your moment and go for it, boy.
NOW WATCH THIS VIDEO ---->>>>
Kissing is a powerful tool to "solidify" your dates, when you kiss a girl on the night she met you
she's more likely to answer her phone when you call and actually meet up with as opposed to flaking on you.
You can also add that you can tell whether she's a good girl or a bad girl by the way she kisses : )
I LOVE doing this.
Tell her that if she has a sloppy kiss then she's bad in bed, if she kisses with no tongue you're
a good little choir girl that I'll probably corrupt and take advantage of, if she uses her tongue then she's a bad girl and needs to be tamed.
Women love guys who talk very sexual like this about silly nonsensical things like kissing. Also goes on to say you can literally use this for ANYTHING..
I get a feeling you're a bad girl because...
i.e you have this sinister look in your eyes like you're up to something
you have a evil laugh ...but I like it
you have a bad girl smile
I can go on forever : )
Talk soon!
Alex
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