How to Get a Girl to Like You
The first thing to consider whenever you set out on your quest to achieve a relationship with a girl is to make certain that you are neat and clean. Let's face it there is no way that a girl is going to like a stinky guy! You wouldn't like a stinky girl, right? Of course not! So, clean up your act!
Your mother, a girl, probably told you that manners were very important. If she didn't then you weren't listening very well (covered later in this article) because ALL mothers try to teach their young sons to be mannerly. Women LOVE mannerly men. It's probably one of the first things they test us on. And yes, they DO test us.
Do you know what a rapport is? It's when you look at her and she looks at you and you just KNOW something has connected. How can you tell for sure? Well, you can look at how she looks at you, how she talks to you, how she treats you. If she's looking away from you frequently, talking very little, saying things that you don't like, changing the subject or moving away from you, you definitely DON'T have a rapport.
Your first day on a new job you don't expect to walk into the CEO's office and help him move out so you can move in. In the same way whenever you go on your first date with a girl don't expect to put the moves on her. Women like to go slow. They like to know what they're getting into with a guy. If you move too quickly they'll jet away from you.
The absolute best way to make a girl know that she's important to you is to actively listen to her. Active listening is when you focus on what she's saying and let her know that you're focused on her words. How do you do that? You repeat back to her what she says occasionally.
Remember, actively talking with her isn't a series of grunts and groans. It's words that you carefully select to let her know she is someone that rocks your world.
Talk soon,
Alex Coulson
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