Why You Should Go Direct On Women When Approaching


A few years ago a good friend of mine suggested that instead of using an indirect approach I should just walk up and say “Wow you guys are amazingly beautiful what’s the story two girls in a bar and no guys around them what’s the deal?”

Ever since going direct I found my success and that of my friends has substantially doubled or even TRIPLED.

When you think about it be a little empathetic and role play with me for a second. If you were a young 20 something female in a bar with your best friend and a normal looking guys approaches and says either of the following:

“Hey guys can I get a quick female opinion? Who do you think cheat more, Men or Women? …. Well the reason I’m asking is …”

So lets rewind and look at this for one the guy is asking to many questions and not making statements, this is the first flaw. Secondly the more questions you make the more doubtful and unsure of yourself you are. Lets move on to the next approach.

“Hey guys … this may sound forward but wow you have to be the most attractive girl I’ve spoken to tonight … well in the last 5 minutes anyway, my name is Alex what’s yours?”

Are you still using indirect approaches? Although going indirect when approaching women i.e. “Hey guys can I get a quick female opinion?” has worked for many men when approaching women in bars, it has its draw backs.

The Reason is women KNOW you’re trying to hit on them when you approach them so it doesn’t matter what you say, whether its direct or indirect they’ll still know it, so why beat around the bush and just go direct and state you interest in her, tell her she’s the most attractive girl you’ve met that night.

The advantage of going direct when approaching women is that you’re confident enough to tell her you’re interested in her (unlike 97% of guys in the bar) and you’re not using an excuse or fake reason to talk to her, (some girls are smart and get creeped out when guys pretend to make up stories just to talk to them).

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