Picking Up Bartenders - A "How To" For Guys Wanting To Pick Up Girls Working At Bars

The Strategy To Picking Up Bartenders in Bars – Part 1

Leaning over the marble bar and at the top of my voice I order a vodka tonic, the young blonde girl behind the bar looks at me inquisitively and asks about my vintage ¾ length velvet jacket I’m wearing and remarks she likes it.

I smile …

Without pausing she quickly and effortlessly places a crisp tonic water and a shot of vodka on a obviously designer made serviette with the emblem “IVY”, for I was at the Ivy night spot, known to celebrities and stars around the world as the club where you pick up glamour girls. Tonight was my night to shine.

It had been three solid weeks where I didn’t go out at nighttime. I was working around the clock the last few weeks on my new DVD the prequel to Street Dating Revealed with my only friend my final cut pro editing suite and a good ‘ole cup of instant coffee, that rancid burning taste that pierces and numbs your taste buds after the third cup and I was well past that.

Standing there at the Ivy nightspot surrounded by some of Australia’s most beautiful women I found myself drawn to the idea of walking away with the bar girls phone number or even better …her

The question was how would I make this possible…

There is a SECRET that most men don’t know about talking to these types of girls ESPECIALLY when they’re working which I’ll reveal in just a moment.

The challenge with these girls who are “working” these jobs is the fact that they are the easiest to talk to, that said they’re also the most challenging to get a phone number from.

The secret strategy is what I call “order a drink and make her think” and has worked for me many times and even my closest friends exclaim how powerful this simple technique is as they’ve had much success from using it to meet hot bartenders.

It’s not really a technique so to speak of but this “order a drink and make her think” helps me remember what I need to do.

It’s very simple and this is how it goes:

** Order a drink from the hottest bartender you see, even if you have to wait for her to serve you it’ll be worth it, it doesn’t really matter what you order just make sure you order it from the hottest girl working the bar.

** When she asks what you would like say with a smile and friendly demeanor
“What do you recommend?”

or

“There’s so much choice here what would you recommend to me or what’s your favorite?”

** The key here is to make her think – you’ve broken the pattern of customer -> bartender and asked what she recommends rather than simply requesting a specific drink like all the other guys there, this is the first step to standing out.

** Depending on how busy it is you can easily chat to these girls. The fact is 99% of these girls are bored for they’re working, serving drinks and everybody’s else is having fun so they yearn for some cool guys to playfully make jokes about them and flirt with her.

If it’s not busy at the bar simply make statements about her and assumptions such as:

** “I love the way move … you have such a grace about you” (say it in a cheesy tone)

** “I’m guessing you’re a Taurus … you have such an strange undertone to the way you poured that beer …

The key here is to make her think i.e. “order a drink and make her think” and say something which is completely logically opposite or philosophical.

END OF PART 1

Your friend.
Alex

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The Pick Up Artists Life - The Persistent Attitude

The Key To Becoming a GOOD Pick Up Artist

Some of the most successful pickup artists have a skill that can NOT be taught on the workshops, in fact the pick up artist probably doesn’t even know he has this skill as its unconscious, or outside the real of their consciousness and they don’t even know they have this unique skill.

That skill is the “unwavering belief in themselves”

Some would say this is confidence and they would be right, it’s also a mixture of arrogance, pride and a few other things.

This is a GOOD skill to have and I’ll tell you why in just a second.

Most budding pickup artists are in the ‘game’ for three months or less and they give up, they give it a try and go out a few times with their buddies they do about half the approaches they could do, and they say they’re not really getting the results of other PUAs out there are getting so they give up. Then a few months later they’re back again giving it another try.

There’s nothing wrong with this don’t get me wrong, in fact this is good that they remained unwavering and giving it another shot. What I am trying to say however is that you should keep going from the get go and never let rejection stop you, or “club” girls attitude deter you.

The skill the drives success in life, in business, personal relationships and other areas is persistence, it’s having this belief in yourself that you can do it and you deserve it. Most importantly is that you DESERVE IT as this will always provide you with a drive to achieve it.

Man guys I’ve coached through my workshop business have learned somewhat skills (from me and others) on being persistent at pickup even when the odds seem like they’re against you.

So what is persistence and some good examples?

I’ve met a lot of successful pick up artists in my life either when I’m interviewing them, running a workshop on some of my travels and bumping into them or just been introduced to them and these insightful guys all possess the skill of persistence and belief.

Persistence:
· Continuity: the property of a continuous and connected period of time
· Doggedness: persistent determination

I like the last word DETERMINATION.

Some good examples of PUA Persistence:
** Never let a rejection from a girl deter or stop you from more approaches
** Never let a bad breakup deter you from feeling for another girl again in the future
** Always be positive in-light of any circumstances (this will always guide you to a solution)
** Even if she has a boyfriend be persistent as most girls who say they have a partner don’t in fact and she’s just testing you.

To become a pick up artist you need the skill of persistence, if you get shot down or rejected then take a breather, have a coffee, don’t get inside your head and think “why, what’s wrong, what am I doing wrong” etc just have a break and keep going. This is the best way to get good at this.

Talk soon
Your friend,
Alex

How To Pick Up Women In The Street - New Video

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This was a lot of fun, watch as I pick up this girl in the street and take her on an instant date to the coffee shop. The key here is to keep talking otherwise she will walk away and the rule is always be closing. I ended up getting her number but I thought I'll try to get an instant date at the coffee shop and I got it!

Good luck and happy hunting! :)

Alex

Asking A Girl Out On a Date - Tips For Guys

When the time comes to pop the question and ask her out on a date the deliema is how do you do it? My rule of thumb is to not ask directly, instead assume she’ll come and merely propose a meeting place. Never call a meeting a “date” as it throws most men in a frame war where he’s courting, he’s paying and he’s going to have to wait for the pink taco until at least the third date … maybe longer.

Asking a girl on a date tip#1
Say these exact words:
“Hey there’s this really cool lounge called and theres something on that we have to check out, it’s on lets meet up there for a few quick drinks and have some fun, you’re going to love this place, I have to go now as a friends making me dinner…so just quickly how’s 8pm work for you? Good … I’ll pick you up/meet you there …look forward to it, cya”

This gets me a 90% date rate … and it should do the same for you. I’ve included some nice touches there like “a friends making me dinner” (she’ll always assume it’s a female friend) and this makes you look good, also that your time is valuable as you ended the phone call first.

Asking a girl on a date tip#2
Always meet your dates in QUIET bars or lounges, never take them to loud noisy bars or nightclubs as other guys may move in mistakenly and whisk your date away, unless you want this to happen my general rule is never take them to busy or loud nightclubs.

Find a cruisy, quiet and half lit (aka romantic) lounge, where there are sofas or lounges as opposed to bar stools which are uncomfortable and pose a problem when the time comes for you to move in for the make out and get things heavier.

Asking a girl out on a date is quite easy when you warm up by talking to other girls first, so call up some old numbers have some great conversations with them and then call your girl, hopefully by this time you would have loosened up a little. Asking a girl out wont be a challenge again!

Your friend,
Alex Coulson


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What To Do If She Has a Boyfriend - Boyfriend Destroyers

Attractive women are rare and when you stumble over them the chances are they’ll probably have a boyfriend and even if they don’t they say they will, doesn’t really make sense does it?

But never fear as the following tips are to be used on women who say “I have a boyfriend” and are designed to assist you to get past the “boyfriend” excuse, I say the word excuse as the ironic notion is even if a woman LIKES you and she’s JUST met you, she’ll still say “I have a boyfriend” if you convey your interest too early on or go in for the close within the first few minutes.

Attractive women wander around in “auto-pilot” mode most of the time. When guys approach and convey interest too early without demonstrating their qualities then the girl has no reason to “be single” she’ll say she has a boyfriend even though she may not, so the key here is to convey as much about you as possible in the first few minutes.

In personal experience I’ll have to say every 3/10 girls who say I have a boyfriend will actually have one. So what do you say when she says, “I have a boyfriend”?

You: Cool … I have a dog

Or

You: Nice, I’m glad you have somebody to be around when you’re not around me.

Or

You: Well … nobody’s perfect.

The key to getting past the boyfriend excuse is to be un-reactive; if you flinch in the slightest or have a slight tremor or muscle movement then she’ll know she has you.

So don’t let the boyfriend excuse affect you. Stay there and persist as remember only a third of all women who say it actually mean it. My belief is that all women need to feel they are being pursued in one way or another, this demonstrates to them whether you really want her and are willing to push past obstacles to get her and if you do you get some pink taco for dinner : )

One girl has actually said to me that she throws the boyfriend excuse out there to “test” a mans quality, if he stays with me and persists he’s a real man as he likes challenges and has “survival” qualities. She also said that she gets disappointed when guys walk away after she says she has a boyfriend, especially if she genuinely liked the guy.

The moral? Quick boyfriend – breaker tactics:

*Stay there and persist
*Be un-reactive
*Keep escalating physically and assume she didn’t say it
*“I have a dog”

Talk soon my friend,
Alex Coulson

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Picking Up Women In Bookstalls & Bookshops

Picking up women in bookstalls is my FAVORITE place : )

Bookstalls are a great place to pickup intelligent women as they’re always packed (especially the big bookstalls) with women who have more going for them apart from their looks.

Picking up in bookshops has always been my specialty, as the women there tend to be very smart and talkative.

Below you will find some quick tip when it comes to picking up women in bookstalls.

Bookstall Pickup Tip#1
Don’t look like you’re in the bookstall just to pick up. If you look like a man on a mission wandering aimlessly around chatting to random women then eventually other women will start to notice. Pick up an interesting book with a colorful cover (something that’ll get women’s attention and something you can talk to her about) examples are travel books to exotic locations, Moroccan cookery, yoga for dummies, art books and if you’re in a playful mood you could have a copy of the bible (tell her you’re a freelance writer and you’ve decided to re-write it).

Bookstall Pickup Tip#2
Don’t linger around her before approaching as this seriously creeps girls out, women in bookstalls are easily approachable and talkative (you will see when you try it) so when you spot an attractive woman in a bookstall casually walk up to her, and start a conversation with her using some of the below conversation starters unique to bookstalls:

Starting conversations in bookstalls should be done in a casual, friendly tone and always smile guys!
* fantastic book …you should definitely read it would you like to know how it ends??

*Hi there, I just noticed you and I have to say you’re remarkably cute … I would regret it not talking to you, my name is Alex …

Remember to keep smiling (even if you don’t fee like it) and don’t linger to long before approaching as you may talk yourself out of doing it. Now go pick up some hotties in the bookstall!

Your friend,
Alex Coulson


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Picking Up Women In The Street - Daytime

Picking up women on the street especially if they’re in a hurry can be difficult for most men however if you know how stop and engage people the correct way then picking up women in the street will be easy.

Women in the street will most of the time be going somewhere that is why its best to keep in mind the rule of short and sweet. What I mean by this is simply as soon as you stop her be short and sweet with your words, don’t start telling an obvious long drawn out story as she’ll quickly excuse herself. So my advice is to start of small …how do you pick up women in the street? You ask them for directions!

Asking directions is a great way to pick up women in the street, as it’s a short and sweet conversation starter, once they give you directions say “great thanks! …Actually before you go you can probably solve something for me that’s been on mind all day, I have to leave in a second so I need a short answer … who do you think cheat more … men or women?”

This will start conversations with women 90% of the time just as long as you have something to say after this to keep the conversations going, however most women (you will see) will stop and engage on this very trivial topic.

Starting conversations and approaching women in the street isn’t hard as you think, the main objective is to be short and sweet with your conversations starter so they readily answer it thinking that’s all there will be, then you keep changing the thread of the conversation, ideally there will be a seat nearby where you can get them to sit down with you, again this isn’t difficult once you’ve it a few times.

A few other quick tips are:
*Women in a hurry are still approachable just be more firm
*Always smile and be non-threatening
*Don’t dress like a bum as you may get ignored (she’ll probably assume you’re going to ask for spare change
*Keep conversations positive and interactive
*Keep your body language facing away from her the first few minutes or until she faces you directly then turn back and face her fully.

I hope you enjoyed these articles on picking up women on the street.


Your Friend,
Alex Coulson


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Real Social Dynamics Bootcamps/Workshops and Courses

So you want to find out more about Real Social Dynamics Bootcamps?

Real social dynamics has been operating for several years and although rsd bootcamps are loosely based on another pickup company they’re still quite successful in teaching men how to approach and attract women on their live rsd workshops around the USA.

RSD or Real Social Dynamics run workshops and bootcamps teaching men how to meet women with a hefty price tag, reviewers of their workshops have called it a great experieince however not worth what they were charged, whereas others have reviewed RSD or Real Social Dynamics bootcamps and courses and said it was worth every penny they spent.

So the choice is all yours when it comes taking a workshop with RSD or Real Social Dynamics as the experience you get depends also on your structure for the bootcamp program. Tyler Durden operates workshops and bootcamps for RSD or Real Social Dynamics on a regular basis so if you want a workshop with RSD or Real Social Dynamics contact Tyler Durden.

Now Real Social Dynamics is offering a free workshop to students in their cities depending on where Real Social Dynamics is currently at, if you wanted to attend one of these workshops again you should contact real social dynamics and check out where they are currently running their workshops and bootcamps and request real social dynamics hold a free seminar in your city.

Their dating courses and workshops from what I know are held over the weekend and cover approaching women and state control, real social dynamics now have their own method when running their workshops and courses and they teach that. Every now and then a new real social dynamics instructor is trained up to replace the instructors or course moderators accordingly.

I hope you enjoyed this article on real social dynamics and their bootcamps.

Your friend,
Alex Coulson

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Picking Up Women In Coffee Shops

Picking up or approaching women in coffee shops is by far the most convenient way to approach women. If you have a busy time schedule but always seem to make time to grab a latte at a coffee shop then you should learn how to start natural and flirty conversations with waitresses or other women in the coffee shop.

Coffee Shop Pickup Tip#1

You’re waiting in line and there’s a hottie in front of you, tap her on the shoulder gently to get her attention and in a firm, friendly voice and a smile say:

You: Hi there …what coffee do you recommend? There’s so much here to choose from …

Her: hehe yeah I’m getting a mocha they’re pretty nice and I love chocolate so you should get one of those

You: thanks I’ll take your advice, but if I’m not happy I’m coming after you…

Her: hehe okay …

When you get to the counter ask in a loud voice (so the cute girl you were just chatting to can hear)

You: Hi there … Can I get a Latte thanks …

Coffee Shop Pickup Tip#2

Relax. Most daytime pickups are very low energy and especially coffee shop pickups. Make sure you slow down your speech (do this if you feel a little nervous) and slow down your movements and body language. If you spot an attractive woman in the coffee shop you slowly walk over and start a conversation. Make it look natural and unrehearsed.

I hope you enjoyed these quick tips on approaching and picking up women in coffee shops.

I'll talk to you soon,
Alex Coulson

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How To Pick Up Women In Supermarkets

Tips For Picking Up Women In Supermarkets

Supermarkets are a great place to pick up women for a few reasons, firstly women there are not in a hurry so stopping them and chatting top them is much easier.

Second there is much you can talk about like what she has in her trolley, what she plans on cooking for dinner, you can ask advice on what to cook with a certain stir fry there is literally so many things to talk about. If you spot women in the supermarket and you want to approach her then follow the tips below as these will ensure picking up women in the supermarket is done smoothly.

Pickup in Supermarket Tip#1

The conversation starter:
YOU: "Hey, can I ask you something? I'm making dinner for a group of friends tonight - all women - and I can't decide between pasta or fish. What do women prefer?"
HER: "Pasta, women love pasta."
YOU: "Ok great, now I just need a cook. What time are you free?"
HER: "Hahaha. Sorry, I can't cook"
YOU: "Can't cook? Really? Oh, my mother warned me about women who can't cook, I probably shouldn't be talking to you"
HER: "Hahaha. Why not?"

Pickup in Supermarket Tip#2

Watch your conversation when talking to women in the supermarket, this is probably the first time someone has approached them being friendly in a supermarket without trying to get them to sample the newest sensation beef peppered sausage (toothpick included) … So ensure the conversation isn’t made too awkward by silences have a few topics up your sleeve ready to go, that way you wont run out of conversation material and she’ll stay and talk to you.

I hope you enjoyed these quick tips on approaching and picking up women in supermarkets.

Your friend,

Alex Coulson

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Neil Strauss Australia - Sydney, Melbourne, Brisbane & Perth

(Neil Strauss who authored the game has transformed many men's lives with his skills and pickup techniques. )

Neil Strauss or ‘Style’ was the first to expose the underground seduction community in his New York Times best selling book ‘The Game’. Neil Strauss went from being an top rock critic writing for Rolling Stone Magazine to a notable pick up artist. Although he learned from Steve Piccus, Hypnotica and Ross Jeffries early on, the majority of his growth occured while mimicking Mystery Method with the famous PUA known as Mystery. ‘The Game’ also details his petty quarrels with Tyler Durden while living in Project Hollywood, which adds a humorous component to the book and makes it quite an enjoyable read.

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Together, Neil Strauss and Mystery, working Los Angeles hotspots, taught their indirect method of game to eager and excited students. Meanwhile the natural game movement spearheaded by Vin DiCarlo (aka Woodhaven), was rapidly spreading throughout the East Coast. Although Vin’s Natural Game was initially met with harsh criticism (if anything seemed too easy, it was disregarded as ineffective), at the time it was the sole alternative to Neil Strauss and Mystery’s indirect routine-based style.

Neil was one of the first one’s to speak out on the natural movement, and took Vin DiCarlo head on. Neil, posting in an underground seduction forum as “Style” clamed that routines were necessary to create attraction, if it did not exist already. In early models of attraction, this may have been true, but remember, Vin was teaching under a completely different paradigm. Vin held his ground, knowing that he was onto something big.

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Neil Strauss went on to publish his book “The Game”, which was extremely successful, and in fact, put him on the seduction map. It chronicles his adventures in Project Holywood, his petty quarrels with Tyler Durden, and ultimately his leaving the community for rock guitarist Lisa Leveridge. It ends with him ultimately changing his beliefs and transitioning to a more natural style of game.

In the end, Vin DiCarlo is proud of Neil, not only because he finally dropped the heavy reliance on routines and flashy peacocking, but also Neil brought a great awareness of the game to the general mainstream.

Neil Strauss was best known for using the ‘jealous girlfriend opener’ and ‘best friends test’ and eventually went on to create a dvd product called the annihilation method. He is currently involved in his online training called the “stylelife challenge” or “stylelife academy”.

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The annihilation method, the game, and stylelife academy are all very great ways for people to start right away with conversational openers, but all of these pieces of training are missing one very important component of the game: Spontaneity and personal integration.

As a person gets into the game, the very first thing they want to know is “What do I say to start a conversation?” or “What’s a good opener? What’s a good routine?” And they go out, and get some initial success with these, get into conversations, get some phone numbers, and start talking to more women.

Neil enjoyed teaching boot camps to his students and his nickname or PUA name "style" was becoming more and more popular. Neil Strauss workshops starting attracting more students and eventually every weekend he was running workshops.

Then as time progresses, and they start realizing that these interactions aren’t going anywhere. Sure they can talk to people in a bar, sure they can get phone numbers, but the women aren’t returning calls. Sure their outrageous clothing is getting them attention, but it’s the wrong type of attention. The women aren’t becoming deeply attracted and meeting up with them. The interactions aren’t progressing all the way.

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Once a student starts to move past that type of routine based game, he starts to realize that he really needs to learn natural game. He starts to learn physical escalation, he starts to learn about the Sexual Selection Switch. He starts to learn advanced conversational techniques such as the ones found in DiClassified Drills. He starts to realize that the game is actually much easier than he thought when he was wasting his time memorizing openers and routines, and realizes he can get better results dressing with good taste, but not over the top.

Neil Strauss knew he has to learn natural game and move away from routine game.

Luckily for the smart student who realizes all of this, there is a workshop designed just for him - DiClassified Drills. It covers all of the topics that make pick up easy, and doesn’t waste any time on things he will have to UNLEARN later on as he matures as a pick up artist.

Workshops are held each weekend in Australia, in Sydney, Melbourne, Brisbane, Perth, Surfers Paradise and more cities. The coaches are Australian trained

Getting In The Mood To Approach Women - Get Into State

I often find that even some of my closest friends still make excuses not to approach women and one excuse is “I’m not in the mood”.

So how exactly do you ‘get’ into the mood to approach women – Simple! Just follow some simple tips below as these will put you in the mood to approach those ladies in no time:

Getting in the mood to approach women Tip#1

Go out with a friend and have a word for the night and the goal of the game is to say that word as many times in each interaction you have with a woman without her noticing it or pulling you up on it.

For example: My favorite word for the night is “ding dong” I’m usually out with my mate and I’ll be saying this word several times in sentences and make it flow. The girls have no idea why my mate is laughing uncontrollably but they’re intrigued.

This is a very fun game to play – try it next time you’re out with a buddy.

Getting in the mood to approach women Tip#2

Watch a funny movie before heading out. I watch ‘there’s something about mary’ or ‘wedding crashers’ this really puts me in a light hearted mood. ‘Family guy’ is also a great pick. That way you start off the night on a good note and you may also have a few jokes up your sleeve.

Getting in the mood to approach women Tip#3

Smile; just smiling will put you in a good mood ready to approach women. It’s also a fact that men that smile more often tend to be more positive and do attract more women. Everyone is attracted to positive, smiling people and not just women! So even if you don’t feel like it turn that frown upside down and crack out your best Kodak moment smile.

Getting in the mood to approach women Tip#4

Have ONE (1) drink. You’re allowed to have a drink to feel the mood and start approaching women however ensure that you don’t rely on it always. When I head out every now and then I have a few beers as I enjoy it and it adds value to my night. I most certainly don’t need them to approach women. However if you’re still feeling the anxiety maybe a little Dutch courage will do the trick though just make it one (1) drink for starters.

I hope these tips on getting in the mood to approach women helped you.

Your friend,
Alex

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How To Be More Confident Around Hot Women

If you've ever tried approaching an attractive woman, then you know that most of your success with her depends on your self-confidence.

Women love guys will confidence and this is a well-known fact, however how easy is it to find this confident core that's hiding inside you in slumber.

So what tips should you follow if you lack self-confidence around women? and want to feel more empowered when talking to very attractive women.

Well here are a few tips you can use to raise your self-esteem around these high caliber women:

1) Learn to relax and be more laid back
Just before approaching an attractive woman, ease yourself into a relaxed state by paying attention to your posture and body language. Then visualize the conversation as it's about to happen going smooth and well. Imagine yourself making her laugh and you walking away with either her phone number or HER ... be as visual as you can as this will help you.

If you can remove all expectations or outcomes from the interaction with a woman then you'll become more relaxed around women. So remind yourself that any negative outcome won't affect your life and visualize what the worst case scenario would be ... her not responding? Her walking away? Realise that you can deal with this and then approach.

2) Start meditation and exercising
There are certain activities (meditation, yoga, and tai-chi) which will make you more relaxed. By practicing these exercises (at home), you'll be able to put yourself into a positive state whenever you need it, including the times when you're trying to pick up women in the shopping mall, the street or your local café.

Of course I don’t mean when you see a hottie at the mall to whip out that yoga mat and start saluting the sun …of course not. However you will discover the benefits of how yoga can boost your confidence around women and in life generally.

So if you're serious about building self confidence, then start using some of these confidence boosting tips.

3) Use your strengths
One quick way to build self-confidence is to write down all of the attractive qualities that make you a great person. Then whenever you're faced with a situation where you're not feeling confident, just recite the affirmations about your positive qualities.

I recall I use to do this every time I woke up in the morning. This helped me beyond doubt and boosted my overall confidence for that day. It has been said that we negativlky criticize ourselves roughly 10,000 times PER DAY… and only pump ourselves up positively around less than 1,000.

By mentally reviewing your strengths, you'll be able to quickly ramp up your levels of confidence around women.

4) Be positive most of the time
It's widely known that guys who smile and have a positive outlook tend to attract more women in their life.

So no matter what you're feeling inside, ALWAYS try to have a positive outlook and do your best to be a guy who women enjoy being around. What's funny is even when you *fake* a confident personality, you'll eventually develop this personality trait!

I hope these confidence-boosting tips have come in handy for you and lets hope (for you sake) you’re prepared the next time you see that hottie at the supermarket!

Talk soon,

Alex Coulson


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Daytime Pickup DVD - Street Dating Revealed DVD

Pick Up Women - How To Pick Up Women During The Day


This is the new trailer for my DVD Street Dating Revealed where we took to the streets for a bit of fun and filmed live pickups. Each DVD is packed full of content on picking up women in the coffee shops/cafes, the streets, in tourist areas, the parks and park benches.

If you haven't already done so head over to http://www.StreetDatingRevealed.com and reserve your copy of the DVD. The special introductory price of $47 won't be up for long so grab your copy now!

Talk soon,

Your mate,
Alex Coulson

How To Pick Up Women During The Day

The above video highlights some quick tips on approaching, getting dates and more from women during the day.

If you've ever seen that smoking hottie in the supermarket, or the video store and wanted to go over and just chat with her but were unable then watch intently, grab yourself a paper and pen and take note.

Picking up women during the day is much easier than it sounds when you know what to do.

Talk to you soon,

Your mate,
Alex

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Are You Running Out Of Things To Talk About With Women?

Are you constantly running out of things to say to women? only to walk away empty handed as this is most men's challenges when it comes to prolonging an interactions with a women. Some simple tips to follow are revealed in this short video where I explain a quick story that I personally use to make women intrigued, some good open ended questions to get them thinking and how to "root" a conversation starter i.e. a good way to explain why you stopped the attractive girl in the first place.

Never again leave just because of an awkward silence!

Talk to you soon,

Your mate - Alex Coulson

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Are You Making Excuses NOT To Approach Women?

The Message:

Approach anxiety affects all men no matter their age, experience with women, stardom or celebrity status or how much money they have … The best way to tackle this nervous fear that grips 99.9% of men is to acknowledge the fear and do it anyway, fight your urges to make excuses or reasons why you shouldn’t approach that blonde in the clothing store.

The Answer:
-“0” Second Rule there is no need to wait 3 seconds – Just approach!
-Fear of regret (This is my biggest fear) I know I’ll end up kicking myself later with “why didn’t I just talk to her”, this feeling most men get when they SHOULD have approached her.

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