In this short video I reveal some simple tips on why having a good wingman will inspire you to get better at approaching women. If you ever achieve an optimum state only to have it abandon you when you need it most (the hot girl standing next to you) then this video will help.
Enjoy!
Alex
(In Thailand)
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The Best Places To Meet Women During The DayTime
The best places to meet women during the day are usually quiet "Sunday" afternoon jazz bars. I found this treasure trove down in Sydney Harbour and this place is great for meeting women during the day.
If you live in Sydney tell your friends about it but not your competition.
Talk soon
Alex
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4 Steps To Successful Daytime Pickup
Do you have interactions with women that just go nowhere? If so then you need a solid plan and a desired outcome. You should start leading the interaction towards your outcome as soon as you start the conversation.
If so then in this video I reveal some quick tips on using false time constraints, locking in or placing yourself in a "position of power" and much more.
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Feeling Nervous Before Your Date? Try This ...
Well so you’ve a hot date lined up and you’re pumped ready to go only you’re looking for that last minute advice that could tip the scales in your favor.
The hours before your first date are hectic I know. The polishing, cleaning, smelling ritual where you douse yourself in the finest pampering you’ve ever given yourself as you want to make the best impression you can, but that nervousness and tension is slowly getting the better of you. Nothing you do is helping this and suddenly you realise that this date is seriously freaking you out and you’re heartbeat is off the charts.
Sound like you?
That nervous feeling you get is a natural occurrence in your body that every guy feels (sometimes also girls too) that is supposed to help you with your performance in making this a successful date. : )
Well the great and exciting news is that this can be easily fixed. Would you like to know how?
GO FOR A RUN
Sound too easy to be true yes? Well exercising just before a date rids your body of that nervous energy and releases natural toxins and endorphins into your blood (which makes you relax and happy) and suddenly it feels like you’re light as a cloud with not a worry in the world.
So in order to combat your nervous energy before your first date I strongly advice you exercise RAPIDLY for at least 15 minutes and you’ll be way more relaxed around her.
You’ll also feel a lot more positive from the nice endorphin high and this will bring your confidence out to shine.
Hope this helps!
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Picking Up Girls In The Daytime - Real Hidden Camera Pickup Reveals All ...
If you've ever wanted some real tips on meeting and attracting women during the day then you've come to the right place. The above video gives you a COMPLETE break down of one of Alex Coulson's daytime pickups from his DVD Street Dating Revealed.
In this pickup video he approaches two attractive women, threw in his false time constraint and within a few minutes had them laughing and then walked away with the contact details of the attractive girl there.
By watching this video you'll be inspired in going out and giving this a try yourself.
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How To Attract Women By Playing Hard To Get and Being Busy

There are so many tips available to help you attract women. As much as these tips indeed can help you attract more women, you can attract more women with just one simple technique. Be busy. That’s it. You can get a woman’s attention and increase her desire by having a busy life, or at least appearing to have a busy life.
You’re more likely to receive more attention and desire from her by giving the impression that you’re busy.
Here’s why…
For many men, the challenge is not getting a woman’s phone number. Maybe they have fine-tuned their skills and have moved beyond that hurdle and can easily get the number. But, many guys still struggle with the “post-number” phase when they need to follow up and actually get a date. The problem is usually that the chemistry and intrigue created during the first conversation have diminished somewhat. As a woman turns her attention to other matters in her daily life, your call gradually becomes less of her focal point.
This is fairly natural occurrence. No, the solution is not to call her immediately after the first conversation. You simply need to rebuild her interest, desire and attraction. Stimulate her desire again, and you can do this best by remembering a common tip yet applying it with a twist. Women tend to be generally more attracted those with more active, exciting lives. Peak her curiosity by showing her that you are a “busy guy.”
A woman will be more intrigued if it appears that there is a lot going on and requiring your attention. Suddenly, your value increases as it is obvious you are not anxiously waiting to see her again or sitting by the telephone waiting for the call. Also, she may even think you are dating or at least talking to other women, which increases her desire for your attention. Again, a little competition, whether present or not in reality, increases the challenge on her end and your value in her eyes.
Wouldn’t it be better to have her waiting by the phone for you call? How can you keep that attraction there after you get her number? Here’s how.
During that first call, be sure to express that there are just quite a few things requiring your attention during the upcoming week and, as much as you wish you did, you presently have no free time. Emphasize that you would like to see her but that it has “been very busy lately.” You want to avoid giving the impression that you do not want to see her but do not apologize for your busy life. Just imply with subtlety that you wish you had the time to see her that week, but just do not.
Now, you can go ahead and plan for a date during that conversation for a time when things “slow down.” Once the date is set and the plans are made, end the call and get off the phone since you have “things to do” or “need to be somewhere.” Do not be too specific, though, but make it sound somewhat important or interesting to again, spike her curiosity.
Once you are on the date, talk a little about some of the activities that have been requiring your time lately. The point is to make it clear that you are a busy guy but that you do want to include her in your “schedule.”
This approach is effective. The last thing you want to do after getting her phone number is to give the impression that you have nothing else going on in your life!
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It's important that during the day you lower your energy level so as you're not TOO excited as this may come across as nervous energy. I find tourists in general are very friendly and easy to start conversations with, if you have a tourist location nearby you should give it a go.
Talk soon!
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Source: How To Approach Hot Women In The Daytime
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Women are wonderful and it's a joy to date most of them but some of them are so screwed up that they'll make your life a living hell. Let's face it there are some women who are nightmares to date and they should be avoided at all costs. These are the type of women that suck the life out of you one way or another.
Life is about energy and these types of women will drain you of your energy and drive you into a place in life that will not be fun. So, it's best to know about these types in advance so you can proactively avoid having these negative experiences.
Emotional Evelyn - The Basket Case
Evelyn is the kind of woman who can't control her feelings. Everything is emotional. She reacts to situations in the extreme. Everything has to be exaggerated to the extremes and her life is always filled with drama. As a result you'll never be able to find a moment of peace because when nothing is happening she'll create a pile of drama, even fights just to 'feel' that something is going on.
Barbara Bride - The Bride To Be
Most women want to get married at some point but Barbara is obsessed with marriage. She's spent her entire life planning for her special day and mapping out the life she's going to be living with Prince Charming. No matter how good you are, though, you'll never live up to her imagination. You'll fall short and your life will be a constant nagging of how you could do better.
Depressed Diane - The Buzz Kill
Diane is always negative. No matter what you suggest, no matter what everyone around her is doing she'll find the negative in the situation and fail to enjoy herself. Anyone around her who's having fun will have her negative feelings thrust upon them. If they don't react accordingly she'll feel offended and feel that you don't care. Misery loves company and if you're not miserable too then you aren't relating.
Gretta Gold Digger - The Legal Prostitute
You'll be able to spot Gretta easily. Everything is about money. She's always making references to money or the value of things. If you find yourself out on a date with her recognize that money is something we all need but with her it's the other lover that you'll never live up to. No matter how much money you have or share with her it will never be enough.
Tammy Torturer - The Evil Witch
Tammy is a stealth master. In fact, she's an abuser. This is the kind of woman who enjoys the pain of others and in most cases she's the nicest, sweetest girl that nobody would ever suspect. Any time she's held accountable she'll deny the truth and feign hurt feelings. She turns people against themselves and others and she's never at fault. She's the destroyer of lives.
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Opening a conversation with a woman is vital to getting the date. In the same way the first date is vital to getting the second date. The thing about relationships is that they're always fluid and always changing. As guys we tend not to think about this but let me assure you that women are constantly thinking about it. They evaluate relationships like we analyze things...constantly.
So to secure yourself as a future dating partner it's essential that the first date you have with a woman makes her feel good. Relationships are all about feeling to a woman. If she doesn't feel good about a relationship then the relationship is bad.
Most women are constantly being torn apart by their emotions. Yes is no, no is yes, the right choice is the wrong choice or maybe not. Their lack of sticking to a decision can be very frustrating to deal with. And don't make the mistake of trying to fix this for her. You'll find yourself lost in the twilight zone!
So how are you supposed to make her feel good about her choice to go out on a date with you? Simple. You don't. There's an old Chinese proverb that says, "turn your enemy's strength against them." In this case she's not your enemy but she may become your opponent. Her strength is her ability to relate and feel. Since you'll never be able to compete in that arena you'll want to get her to do the work for you.
Early on during your first date ask her what caused her to make the decision to go out on a date with you. She'll probably go over your positive attributes and share some really nice things about why she felt it was a good idea. While she's talking about all this two things are happening. She's reinforcing her decision in her own mind and she's watching you react favorably to her choices.
This will giver her a feeling of acceptance of herself and acceptance from you. A few well placed comments commending her for her judgment will go a long way toward securing that second date.
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Overcoming Your Fear Of Rejection By Women

Everyone has a certain amount of fear of being rejected whether they're men or women. Men seem to become nearly paralyzed with fear, though, when it comes to approaching women. There's a very simple reason for this. We are after something that we know they most likely won't want to give to us. The minute we start talking to them it feels like we're wearing a big sign that tells them what we want. That's because we are.
Women are designed to relate. They relate to women, children, furniture, clothes, you name it, they relate to it. It's how they interpret the world. If they can't relate to it then it's not real or it's a threat. Women love to relate to men but men (to them) don't love to return the favor. A woman is like a mirror. She shares herself with someone and she expects that sharing to be reflected in another mirror. If you've ever looked into two mirrors you know the repeat images can go on infinitely. This is how relationships work with them.
There's no way we men can keep up with this constant reflection of emotion and we know it. We don't want to relate. We just want what we want. When we begin a conversation with a woman she's looking right through us and can almost always see (or sense) what we're after.
So how do you overcome this? Change what you're after. Instead of looking down the road to the date look at the moment in which you find yourself. Enjoy this moment for what it offers. If you don't have an expectation it can't be sensed. Allow the expectation to appear in it's appropriate time frame. Simply enjoy the current conversation and relax. She'll sense the relaxed 'feeling' you're projecting and she'll 'reflect' that same relaxation.
They say when the student is ready the teacher will appear. In the same way when the woman is ready the expected rewards will appear.
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The right timing can mean the difference between winning and losing. In the boxing ring, one well timed punch can knock out the opponent, but if that same punch is delivered just a second later it can result in hitting nothing but air. Now, obviously, attracting women with boxing isn't what I'm talking about, but learning about timing is.
With the wrong timing you can come on too strong when she's just not ready. You also could make your move too late and the moment of attraction dies on the vine. Timing is a learned skill. Not some esoteric thing that some guys have and some don't. Timing is developed by observation and practice.
The next time your out with the rest of humanity find a place it sit down and just watch people. Watch the body language of women in the area. What are they doing when they're talking with their friends as opposed when they're talking with their lovers? Watch how different men approach women and take note of which approaches are successful and which ones aren't.
Watch two lovers. Be downright scientific about this. Do they go from hand holding to passionate kissing in a matter of seconds? Not usually. Watch the different body language structures, facial expressions, touches, smiles. While watching one of the things that you will observe is that women are always sending out signals. Knowing what to do with those signals is what timing is about.
Now, this type of education might sound manipulative or deceitful, but it isn't. Of course, you want to be more attractive to women, but the woman that you're with will be the recipient of this education. And she will like the fact that you are so attentive to her. She'll read this as you being so into her that you know what she wants and when to make the right moves. A very sexy thing for any woman.
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It's no secret that women want to be with men who know how to act like a man. They like a strong man. Not necessarily a physical Atlas so much, but a man that has strength in his personality. Confident and competent.
Now no one is perfect at everything that they do, but that doesn't mean you need to turn into a pool of jello because you aren't perfect at something. Confidence and competence are more attitude than anything else.
Start by listening to yourself. Do you stutter or stammer when nervous? Find ways to overcome this behavior. This is a behavior, not a physical handicap and can be overcome.
Do you say "I don't know" or "I'm not sure" a lot over simple questions like "what do you want to do tonight" or "where do you want to eat?" STOP THAT! This drives women nuts. If the question of where to go or where to eat comes up and she doesn't have a preference, then you make the decision. Believe it or not, that's one of the easiest things to do to show a woman that you can take care of her.
Watch your body language. When standing around in a group of people, keep your head up. Look people in the eye. Smile frequently. These are the signs of a person who is confident and comfortable with himself. A sign of strength all by itself.
Slouching, looking at the floor frequently, nodding like a bobble-head all give off the wrong impression. This type of body language sends all the wrong impressions. You won't even get to introducing yourself if you look like your looking for worms.
Do yourself a favor. If you don't know how to dance, learn. Most guys won't get on the dance floor because they're too embarrassed. Girls love to dance. This will also make you more confident and help you with your body posture.
Simple, but effective changes like this are key.
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How Does Having a Wingman Help You?

Meeting women is easier when you have a buddy to go with you. Why? Because he can become your Wing Man. He can help introduce your and your qualities where you can't. If you go spouting out your qualities and abilities, your going to come out sounding like a braggart instead of confident. Your wing man can help out in this area.
First, talk with your buddy about the types of things that you want him to say to the woman that your are wonting to be with. Basically coach him. Since this is word of mouth advertising he needs to be genuine. If he's genuine, then he's believable. Make sure that what he says is the truth; you don't want some exaggerated tale to come back and bite you later on.
When you're in a situation where the woman you want to be with is accessible, that's when you want him to go and join into a conversation with her and her friends. As they're talking, your wing man will bring you up in conversation, make a way to talk about your positive qualities or your accomplishments. This part need to come into the conversation naturally. Practice with your wing man different scenarios to use.
When he has made his comment about you, he needs to give you a high sign or some other way of introducing you to the group. By this time the group, and your girl, will already be familiar with who you are and that you're a great guy. That's what the wing man accomplishes for you.
This will work for both you and your wing man. If your both single and looking, go for a tag-team approach. Practice what you're going to say for each other and how each of you is a great guy. This would be really fun at a party where there are a lot of women that you don't know.
Hey, it's about having fun, right?
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Do you play golf, basketball, or baseball? If you do then you know that there are times when your play becomes stagnate, even predictable. Sometimes you get into such a rut that the opposing team or players can read you like a book and know what your next move is and defend against you without any problem. Or, you get into such a rut with your swing or shot or throw that you continually make the same mistake. Over and over and over.
Same thing happens with attracting women. You go to the same places, at the same time, with the same people and meet the same women. You use the same techniques, the same style of clothes, even the same after shave. Over and over and over.
You're in a rut. And that's bad news.
You've got to change that routine! A better way to look at it is you GET to change that routine. Fortunately, changing your routine is a LOT easier than changing you swing or shot. Simply think of what you normally do, and do something different.
Say you go out every Friday night to the same bar. Go someplace different. Someplace you wouldn't normally go. Check the place out, be friendly and socialize a little. Give yourself a little time to get the feel of this new environment. Then the next week go there again and start making yourself known with some of the ladies. Simple and fairly painless.
Here are some easy tips to make a change in your routines that will help you attract more women more frequently.
· Go different places
· Change the times that you go out
· Try meeting women both out in public and online
· Try a new technique for introducing yourself and starting conversation
Changing your routines has the added benefit of making you a more interesting person with a broader range of experiences to pull from. You'll like the changes you've made and wonder why you didn't make them sooner.
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A lot of guys feel like women are mysterious creatures that they can't figure out. They look at how they change their mind frequently or how they can be happy one minute and cry the next. Or, here's a real mind boggler; what's with all those shoes and purses?
The truth is that women and men ARE different in the ways they act, speak, and perceive the universe (think of the book, Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars). However, that doesn't mean YOU can't know what they want. It's really pretty simple. They want a decent human being that possesses the following traits and values:
Confidence: Everyone likes to be around a person who is confident. This may sound bogus, but think about it. When you were in school, the guys that people most liked to be around weren't just jocks, or the really smart guys, or even the best looking guys. It was the guy who was athletic, smart, and was CONFIDENT in his abilities. The looks actually came in a distant fourth. Being confident is about being comfortable with yourself; your own honest estimation of your abilities.
Honesty: This is a no-brainer. Don't lie. About anything. Ever. If the truth is going to hurt, be gentle, but never lie.
Integrity: This sounds like honesty, but it's actually has to do with the core of your character. Integrity is honesty, reliability, and responsibility all wrapped up together. If you don't have this trait as part of your core character, do whatever you have to do to change that. This one isn't just about women; it's about your success in life.
Good sense of humor: Women love to laugh. They also love to feel comfortable around people. A good sense of humor is more than being funny; it's about being easy to be around. Relax and enjoy the woman your with; have fun.
An ease with sexuality: This means being attuned with her sexual needs. Learn to read a woman's sexual responses when your with her. Make mental notes of what pleases her, especially if you both are enjoying the same thing.
If you develop these 5 traits you'll be light-years ahead of the game.
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In this video I critique and break down one of my own street pickups from my Street Dating Revealed DVD's.



