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Eliminate Nervousness Around Women Within the Next 3 Minutes

Nervousness is nothing but a slight, or in some cases a very severe case, of fear. Fear is False Evidence Appearing Real. The perceived negative result of an action becomes so terrible that you avoid the action. In almost every case the fear is not real. Your tongue won’t fall off just because you talk to a woman.

Don’t worry if you’re afraid to talk to women. Many of the manliest men have experienced this same problem at one time or another. It’s common to feel the fear. The trick is to find ways to overcome the fear.

Most experts agree that facing your fear is the best way to overcome it. So, how to you overcome being nervous around women? How do you do it in less than 3 minutes? You just start talking. Talk to women. They’re not china dolls. They won’t break and neither will you. Don’t know what to talk about? No problem. Assess your relationship situation and find a topic appropriate to it.

What I mean is that if the woman is a coworker talk about work. If she’s a waitress talk to her about the good job she’s doing. If she’s a lady in line at the grocery store ask her opinion about an item you’re buying or how to prepare one of the items you’re buying. Make the topic situationally relative.

Another way to go about this is to pick a woman you know you’d never be interested in dating. By doing this you have nothing to lose. You’ll find that talking to her is very easy. After practicing this technique for a while start using the technique with women you might be interested in dating. Finally, move on to those women you know you’d like to date.

By the time you make it to the ladies you’d like to date you’ll have had so much experience that you’ll come across as a naturally self confident man and that will automatically attract them. In fact, don’t be surprised if they start opening conversations with you once they see you confidently interacting with other women!

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8 Signs That a Woman Is Flirting With You…

Women are like radio stations. In order to hear what they’re broadcasting all you have to do is tune in to their channel. Women are constantly broadcasting their thoughts and desires. The smart man will learn these signs and take note of them regularly.

Listening often means more than using your ears. Active listening is paying close attention to what’s being said and paying close attention to the behavior of the other person while they’re saying whatever it is they’re saying. By combining the input from these two sources you can pretty much read her mind!

Once you’ve practiced responding to these openly hidden signals you’ll develop a very close feel for how each woman you meet thinks before you even talk to her. She’ll appreciate the fact that you can ‘hear’ her and this will put her at ease with you while at the same time broadcasting that you’re the ‘bad boy’ she needs.

Here are 8 different signals that a woman is flirting with you…

Flirting Signal 1: Having A Great Time
Women like to be looked at. They also want to give you a good impression. One of the best ways they can advertise to you that they’re a fun loving person who’s fun to be with is to act like they’re having an extremely fun time with their friends.

Flirting Signal 2: Self Touch
A woman who is attracted to you will often unconsciously touch herself. She may stroke her hair, touch her hands or knees. She’s openly displaying what she’s most likely thinking. She’s most likely thinking about how she would feel if you were touching her in those areas. Always look for a grin or a smile. The bigger the smile the better off you are.

Flirting Signal 3: Preening
Women thrive on being beautiful. When a woman is attracted to you her first thoughts will be about how she looks. She’ll start smoothing her clothing or straightening her hair without even giving it conscious thought. This is a clear sign that she wants to please you enough to attract your attention.

Flirting Signal 4: Checking You Out
Because women thrive of beauty they’ll naturally be attracted to good looks. If a woman sees your face and likes what she sees she’ll generally do the body scan. She’ll start at your feet and work her way up to your face. Remember, she’s doing this because she’s already found something about you that attracts her. This is a good time to make direct eye contact with her. Don’t forget to smile in a friendly manner.

Flirting Signal 5: Open Body Language
Sooner or later you’re going to have to approach any woman you feel might be attracted to you. As you approach check to see if her body is ‘open’ to you. Look for her arms being open and her wrists being shown to you. Follow through this careful exam as you talk to her. It’s an ongoing feedback tool to understand her level of attraction.

Flirting Signal 6: Gets Closer To You
Another thing to look for is whether or not she moves closer to you. This will generally not happen unless she’s talking to you. Closeness is intimacy for a woman. The closer she allows herself to get to you the more she’s attracted to you.

Flirting Signal 7: Subtle Eye Contact
Most women flirt in a subtle way rather than a direct approach. The one area where they break this rule is when they make direct eye contact. This is a signal flare that they are hot for you. She’s already made up her mind that she likes you and this is her way to openly let you know it’s time to move to the next step.

Flirting Signal 8: Facial Scanning
More often than direct eye contact you’ll notice her checking out your face. If this happens, PAY ATTENTION! See if she’s looking back and forth from your eyes to your mouth. If this happens she’s issuing you an invitation to kiss her. It’s as if she has a billboard stamped on her forehead, “Kiss me stupid. Kiss me NOW!” It’s good to obey. Give her what she wants…now. ;)

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Being Romantic Will Never Attract Women - Here's Why ...

Did you ever watch Pepe' Le Pew cartoons when you were a kid? The poor female cat with the fake stripe down her back would back away from Pepe's romantic advances in any way she could. Now this was mainly because of Pepe's odor, but the whole schtick that Pepe' had was equally as obnoxious as his smell.

Romance too soon in a relationship has the same affect as a rose perfume that's been poured on - you can't enjoy the delicacy of the scent because it's too much. Instead of enjoying the scent, it gags you.

Now, don't misunderstand me here. Women love a romantic evening. But not when she's just getting to know you.

She wants to see who she's with and learn the things about you that are important. Romance right up front sets off red lights that you're only wanting to get in her pants. Or that you aren't able to have a day-to-day normal relationship. Basically, it creeps her out.

Put your focus on getting to know her, and letting her get to know you. This will build attraction with the things that you have in common. This will also open up a way for the two of you to learn about your differences. This is just as important a part of the relationship as being romantic. This is where you both decide if you like each other enough to want to be romantic with each other. Learn to like each other as people first.

Continue to build attraction through building a rapport with her. When it's time for romance to occur, it will become very evident to both of you. No doubt, this is an area where you can really impress her. That's great! Great romance will take her breath away. Then, in turn, she'll take your breath away.

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Nice Guys Finish Last - Jerks Enjoy The Perks

In case you weren’t aware of it there’s nothing women despise more than a nice guy. Of course, all women like a nice guy. He’ll make a great friend. But if your goal is more than being a friend forget it. Nice guys repulse women when it comes to the game of attraction. What do I mean by a nice guy? They’re easy to recognize. They’re eager to please a woman. They buy gifts all the time. They’re so eager to attract a woman by being pleasing them that they completely ignore what the woman really needs.

To understand what a woman needs you have to look at her psychological make up. Women need to take care of people. They’re nurturers. Their goal in life is to support and help people grow. Without a challenge to overcome they’ll never feel attraction toward a man. They need to be needed. They need to be able to help you grow and overcome your life challenges.

Your job, if you choose to attract a woman, is to present yourself as a challenge that she’ll feel the need to deal with. This can be
done by selecting your own set of standards ahead of time and sticking to them. Whenever she disrespects your standards or expects you to meet her standards for you you’ll need to stand hard and let her know where to get off.

This isn’t disrespect for a woman. This is respect for your own life standards and it’s you meeting her need for a strong man who presents a challenge. You’re actually being respectful of her need. She may not even be aware of this need but she has it.

This strong stand should be expressed as self confidence. If you’re not confident in yourself you can’t inspire confidence for you in her. Your strength is something that she’s strongly attracted to. Any man who lacks confidence is a wimp.

Project an “I don’t give a damn” attitude. If she perceives that you’re willing to walk away you won’t be remotely mistaken for being a ‘nice guy’. Once you kill off the nice guy in you by adopting a personal conduct code so you’re confident you’ll light her inner fire and you’ll both soon be toasty.

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5 Signs Your Woman Is Cheating On You - Look Out For These Gents!

Relationships are best when both partners are interested in each other and are interesting to be around. If you've been in a relationship for a long time, then this factor begins to wear thin. Things may get a bit stale and predictable. But, hey, all relationships go through this sort of thing without any real harm, right?

Not necessarily. I read a statistic that stated nearly one third of all girlfriends/wives play around on their partner. That's roughly 1 in every 3 women cheat. Below are five signs that your girl may be cheating on you.

1. Long hours at work. Everybody has to do overtime occasionally. But, if she is having to stay late night after night, particularly if it's several hours at a whack, then take notice. Of course, if she just got a promotion or there's a huge project that coming due, then you can probably relax. But if not, well....

2. She's no longer talking about a male friend. It's nothing new to have a friend of the opposite sex within our jobs. But if she's been talking about a Bob, Russ, or some other guy a her work, then she suddenly doesn't say anything about them, there may be something to that. Ask her about him in a non-threatening way a see what sort of answer she gives.

3. She's taking better care of her appearance. If your girl begins to exercise for no particular reason that you can see, find out what's going on. Something's had to be a catalyst to that change. If she's exercising and taking more care of her make-up and clothes, find out the reason for it.
4. No longer sexy with you. No slap and tickle. No interest in sex. May even push you away. These are all signs that something else is going on. Make sure she's not ill, because illness can destroy sex drive. But if she's not, then she's receiving satisfaction from somewhere else.

5. She's disinterested in you altogether. Everybody get bored. But, if she doesn't even nag you about those sloppy sweat pants you won't give up, then don't be surprised if she's not interested in you at all.

Just like us, not all women cheat. But don't let yourself be lulled into complacency and think that she's always going to be around simply because she's female.

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Build Attraction By Breaking Your Date Plans With Her

Women are shoppers. They are constantly comparing things and assigning value. The same is true with the guys they date. You should never assume that you have an exclusive contract for her attraction to the opposite sex. What I’m about to share with you will work but it’s not for wimps. If you’re not a REAL man you should stop reading now.

You need to establish yourself as one of the guys in your lady’s life with higher status. Unless you’re willing to take the risks of higher gain you’ll be assigned to the B group of guys she’s dated.

While the principle is simple and fairly easy to put into practice it can be hard to follow if you care about the girl you’re dating. This principle can seem to be and can actually be somewhat disrespectful to her. In the end, though, you’ll cause her to value your time together much more and she’ll enjoy that time a great deal more.

The goal is to create a sense that you’re more valuable. In order to accomplish that you have to become more rare. The rarer the object the higher its value. The best way to achieve that higher status is to take yourself out of the picture by breaking a date with her. This should be done after you’ve had a few dates and established a budding dating relationship.

It’s a known fact that when you take something away from a person they feel loss. This creates a sense of scarcity and automatically creates a desire within the person experiencing the loss to regain what they’ve lost.

When you deny her your presence on that date you’re actually planting a seed of warning smack in the middle of her emotion center that says you may not be there in the future. While you want this to have a strong impact it can also come across as a harsh disrespect instead of making you more valuable so here are some ways you can head off the impression that you’re being harsh.

· Don’t wait until the last minute. Give her at least two days heads up so she can make plans to do something else.
· When you cancel be sure to tell you can’t make it but you’d like to go out with her another time. This way she’ll feel the loss of you but will have the hope of a future time.
· Don’t go out into the public on the day when your date was scheduled. Think about it. If she sees you or one of her friends see you out and about you’ve just blown your cover!

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Four Cool Tricks To Impressing The Ladies - James Bond Style!

If you're like a lot of guys, learning how to get girls to like you is one of the hardest things you have to figure out. You've tried pick up lines that didn't work; tried to look like Brad Pitt with no success; most of the time you just end up feeling like an idiot.

If you're trying to get a girl to like you, then you have to involve something that is more important than looks; more important than some ridiculous pick-up line. You have to involve yourself and build a rapport with her.

Rapport is that part of communication that goes beyond mere talking. It's the part of communication that builds a connection between a man and a woman.

Here are the easiest steps around for building a rapport with girls.

1. Be positive. Upbeat and happy people are more fun to be around. Positive people literally draw an almost palpable energy, then give it back out to others. Extremely sexy.

2. Be full of energy. Now, you don't have to go bouncing around the room like a rabbit to display energy. What you do have to do is be engaged and engaging when talking with others. Listen intently. Be enthusiastic on topics that you enjoy. This type of energy is contagious.

3. Be confident. This doesn't mean you have to know all the answers and have the perfect thing to say at all times. It means that you have belief in yourself and what you do know. If you don't know something, say so. Don't try to act like you know about a subject you don't have a clue about. You're in idiot territory when you do that.

4. Relax! Girls are wonderful! They don't want to humiliate you. They WANT to get to know you. Just relax into conversation and begin to build a rapport. This is fun, if you'll just relax and enjoy yourself.

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Cleaning Up Your Appearence Will Help You Meet More Attractive Women

Here's a scenario I bet you've at least seen, if not done yourself. You've asked a girl out to a movie and to go out for something to eat afterwards. You go to pick her up and she looks GREAT! Hair is perfect, her make-up looks natural, her clothes look amazing on her, and she smells beautiful. You, however, have shown up in a pair of ragged jeans and a t-shirt with a beer, race car, or ball team advertising on it. And your smell? Well, you sprayed your pits before you left, right?

Dude, what are you thinking? Girls like a guy to look good! They don't want to be seen as someone who's taste leads them to the Billy Bob Redneck crowd. You, my man, are a reflection of her style.

Now, I know this might sound crazy, but the way you look can be just as important as your character, especially in the first few encounters. A woman will spend hours figuring out just the right accessories for her outfit so that she looks just right. Ergo, you have just become an accessory so that she looks just right.

You might want to say that I'm totally whacked and even if I'm right, you're never going to be an accessory for a chick. Think about this, though. All that care that she puts into her looks, she's willing to put into you. Here's how you make that happen.

When you are wanting to look more attractive to women and really don't know how, just ask a woman for help. Most women have a great sense of style. They know what recommendations to make to expand your wardrobe and bring it up to par. They also know where to get the best bargains, so your wallet won't take such a hit.

If you are able to ask the woman that you're wanting to attract to dress you, all the better. Use this opportunity to have a short date. You can find out a lot about a woman when you go to shop with her. And she'll feel more close to you because you're going to reflect her style.

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4 First Date Questions To Build Strong Attraction With Her

Great! You’ve gotten a first date with that girl you’ve been wanting to get to know. Now, you’ve already been able to build attraction. You wouldn’t have been able to get a date if you hadn’t, right? So, where do you want the relationship to go from here?

Building a greater degree of physical attraction needs to be a natural course of events, not a contrived situation. Women liked to be wooed. I know, that’s a totally archaic word, but it’s still true.

Start with asking questions that are focused on her. Ask her what things she’s interested in; what are some of her hobbies; what’s her favorite singer or band? Then find areas of commonality that you can both enjoy talking about.

Find out her dreams, goals, and plans. Questions about these areas will give you some insight into the kind of person she is. This can be really important before going to a more intimate level. You can find out whether she likes control, how driven she is,if she’s clingy or a whiner. Use these to find out if you want to continue being with her.

If she’s someone you want to proceed with in the relationship, ask some questions that will draw out her sexuality. Questions like, “who, in your opinion, is one of the sexiest actors on screen?” Watch her responses, as well as listen. You can learn a lot about what she likes sexually with these kinds of playful, sexy questions. If she’s a smart girl, she’ll ask you about who you think is sexy.

Finally, bring a few questions about sex into the conversation. Be fun with these questions, making sure to bring them up when the time is most appropriate. For instance, ask her what’s her favorite part of the kiss; the moment just before the kiss, the feel of the kiss itself, or the taste on her lips afterward.

These questions will be useful to sort out the type of woman she is and if she’s someone you want to pursue. Building attraction to a fever pitch is the last area you want to hit. But watch out when you do – she’ll be primed and ready, simply from asking the right questions at the right time.

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3 Quick Tips For Overcoming Anxiety With Approaching Women During The Daytime

“I’m Still Afraid Of Approaching Women During The Daytime”

Does this sound like you?

You’re not alone here as daytime approaching can be the hardest yet most rewarding skill you can master with a bit persistence and practice.

And that’s the beauty of it! I’m not pulling your chain here you can master this and once you do imagine the freedom of choice you have to approach women anytime whether night or day, anywhere and have the courage to take it somewhere further like on a instant date, or maybe just get a phone number it’s entirely up to you.

So the first step is to head to a busy shopping mall or daytime tourist spot to practice. This is key as there’s no point heading out to an abandoned or half empty public place if there’s no one to practice on is there?

If you do this then you could be unconsciously making excuses not to approach and thereby making it harder for yourself. There’s no advantage here I can tell you now as I used to do the same. This makes approaching women during the daytime so much harder and it puts the undue pressure on you to approach people but there are none! So you end up beating yourself up.

So make sure you’re in a busy public area with plenty of attractive women around. Now you’re ready to make some history let’s work on your conversation starter. I like to use an opinion opener during the daytime to stop women but not any ordinary opinion opener as sometimes it can be un-calibrated to ask a random opinion in a public place, so it helps if the opinion opener is situational i.e. something to do with shopping or something she’s wearing. Make sure your opinion opener is tested and works.

Lastly don’t have an objective when you’re practicing this and just starting to learn day game and approaching women during the daytime. Because if you were to have an agenda she will realize it and you may discover her asking you questions like “Why are you asking me this?” etc or even worse she may think you’re trying to sell her something. Focus on chatting and having a genuine conversation as opposed to the former.

So In summary for approaching women during the daytime and overcoming your fear you need to follow these three simple steps:

1. Find a public place where there are plenty of attractive women around to practice on (this is the most important step!)
2. Have a solid conversation starter ready to say. Always have this ready and prepared (this is the second most important step to day game!)
3. Focus on having a normal conversation and NOT having an agenda.

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How to Pickup Models, Celebrities and other Stunning Women

The most important part of working the game with these types of women is your lifestyle.

Creating a lifestyle that naturally attracts women is so pivotal to attracting these types and caliber of women.

Look at the photographers for model agencies and why they’re always surrounded by beautiful women, there’s nothing that special about a photographer as he may not have an expensive car, his own place or even be good looking or rich, far from it actually. The key here is that it’s his lifestyle that draws women to his side.

Now look at TV Celebrities or actors. These types of men don’t necessarily have the best dating skills as they’re constantly breaking up, getting back together, having affairs, re-marrying, divorcing etc and we know about this because they’re constantly in the public eye. The only reason why most these actors are dating high profile actresses and models is because they’re in the industry and have the lifestyle.

So what is the lifestyle that these types of women crave?

Well below is listed a short list of what models and celebrities crave in the lifestyle of their man.

1. Cool “inner secret parties” and invitations to special events and hi-profile get-togethers
2. Be seen as the authority in the industry or be recognized and of some standing by their peers and colleagues
3. Be seen as active with interesting activities on the weekend such as sailing, viewing art galleries, rock climbing and other intriguing activities
4. Be intelligent and witty with a love of language, poetry, wine and culture
5. Be fit and active physically and mentally (go to the gym and workout)

Money, good looks and a sports car won’t get you this lifestyle however it won’t hurt it. If you’re genuinely a cool guy who has an interesting life filled with experiences and travel then these women will naturally be attracted to you. If you actually possess an expensive car, house and are good looking you will find this compliments the package however it won’t help you unless you have the foundation of the lifestyle.

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The Hershey Kiss Pick Up Technique

Sometimes finding a way to approach a girl is to simply go up and offer her a kiss. A chocolate kiss that is. This is an easy way to go up to a girl and get her attention and her approval in one fell swoop.

Go out and buy a couple bags of Hershey Kisses. Get a bag of regular kisses and a bag of a different variety of kisses. You know, swirl, dark chocolate, almonds, what ever floats your boat. Then make sure that whenever you go out that you carry some of each kind with you. Keep a supply at home where you can pick up a few of each to take with you anywhere.

Let's say you're out at a party. People are socializing and having a good time. Everyone's relaxed. Just go up to a girl that you would like to meet. Have a kiss in each hand, a different variety for each. Smile and, with just a little orneriness, say, "A woman as beautiful as you deserves a kiss!" Then, hold out both hands, grasping the kiss to hide it, telling her to pick one.

If she's brave enough to touch your hand to get her kiss, then you'll know that she is open to getting to know you. You can begin to joke around with her a bit and ask for her name right up front. The address, phone number, email address, and asking her out will be able to follow pretty quickly afterward. Just be open and attuned to her attitudes and body language.

If she just points, then you'll want to continue talking with her in a way that is less personal, but will still allow you to get to know her. Give her the Hershey's kiss, then open the chocolate that she left and tell her something like, "I like these silly things, too." Talk for a while about chocolate, asking her what her favorite type is, or something light like that. Slowly work you way in the conversation to getting her name, number, address, and email. If you are able to get her to her comfort level with you, go ahead and ask her out. I guarantee you she will like the attention and will respond favorably.

This technique can also be used with a group of girls, as well. Just make sure you have enough for everyone and keep you hand open with both kinds for them to choose from. Say to the group "Wow, so many beautiful women? Here's a kiss of each of you." They will all love you for complimenting them and for giving them chocolate. The one that responds the most positively and talks with you more than the others, she's the one to go after.

This may sound like an incredibly simple to make an approach, but it's extremely effective. The key is to relax, be your own sweet self, and share your chocolate.

Girls and chocolate. Who knew!

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How You Can Attract Women With The Help of Bartenders, Shot Girls, and Store Clerks

Attracting girls is an essential skill that has to be learned. If you want to become really good at getting a date with girls, you have to practice your attraction skills. It's kind of like some jobs - they want someone who has experience, but you can't get experience unless you're hired for the job.

But, this practice has a built-in solution. You practice your attraction skills on beautiful women!

WHAT?! Practice on the women that I want to attract! You must be NUTS!

Nope. Not at all. It's like this. There are women that are called 'hired guns'. They may have regular job duties, like typing, floor sales, wait tables. But, a part of their duties is to talk to the customers. The male customers, in particular. They're paid to talk to you.

The point is that you can talk with a beautiful woman and practice your techniques in attracting women with her and, under most circumstances, she won't reject you. If she does it's because you've been completely inappropriate, aggressive, vulgar, or some other totally obnoxious behavior. And, you'll be kicked out on your keister by whoever she works for. Practice all you want, but don't mess with the 'hired gun'. They're protected property.

Hired guns typically work for high end, trendy clothing stores; they're female bartenders at local bars and night clubs; waitresses in an establishment that tends to cater to men (Hooters), liquor and beer promotions shot girls; the car show spokeswomen. These women are typically beautiful, friendly, and especially easy to talk with. They make a good practice partner.

Come early and begin your evening by talking and practicing your flirting and attracting techniques with these women. Then, when you have warmed up and are in the zone, go out and start talking with other beautiful women that you find interesting.

This is truly a great way to get in some great practice time with a real live beautiful woman. Be sure to use this opportunity to your advantage.

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Become a Master of Attraction and How to Stop Being an Average Guy

You're probably like most other guys. An average guy. A decent, hard-working fellow that is nice, neat, and respectful. You listen to her attentively. You're polite and cautious with what you say and do. There's only one problem:

Average equates to boring.

Don't get me wrong. There's absolutely nothing wrong with any of the things that are mentioned above. It's just that they don't make you stand out from the crowd. Keep being decent, hardworking, and the rest of it. Well, you might want to rethink the cautious with what you say and do. This is where loosening up will be a big improvement.

The fastest way to stand out in a crowd is to be funny. The second way is knowing what to do to have fun. The first can be a little tricky to master, but the second is a matter of talking and asking questions, then listening to answers. Which is interesting conversation.

When you find out what other people, girls in particular, like to do, become the supplier of that fun. If they like to talk about politics, suggest going to a political rally and follow it up with a discussion at a local pub. If the group of girls you have been talking with like comedy, suggest going to a comedy club for the evening. Become the guy who's knowledgeable about what's going on around town. The guy that knows how to make a good time. The guy that everyone goes to. That's not average.

Standing out from the crowd can take many forms. The point is that anyone can do average. Making yourself special is a way to become more attractive to the opposite sex. You will stand out in her mind, and that's what you want. And you'll never be average again.

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Are You Lucky or Successful With Women?

Okay, you've just gotten a date with one of the best looking women you've seen in a long time. You're feeling pretty good about yourself right now. Boy, you are one lucky dude!

Really? Was it luck that she's going out with you, or did you put some time and effort into getting her attention, approaching her, and starting a conversation that led to the date? Or was it skill?

This may sound like semantics, but there is a big difference between the two. If you think of yourself as lucky, your chances with women will be, at best, hit and miss. But, if you have confidence in your skill with flirting, approaching, and talking with women, you know that you can meet whoever you want and get a date with her at any time of your choosing.

That's not just big, that's huge.

Belief and confidence in your skill with women plays a big part of who you are and how well you present yourself. This belief in your skill helps to build your confidence.

Women love to be around a confident man. A man who is confident in himself can write his own ticket when it comes to dating.

Practicing the skills that it takes to meet women have paid off. You believed in yourself, did the work, and now the time has come to reap the rewards.

The truth of this is that if you believe you can do it, then you can. Luck has nothing to do with it. Belief in yourself keeps you practicing; practicing hones your skill; skill builds confidence.

It's that simple. Believe you can do it, and you can!

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5 Ways On Getting Back Your Girlfriend

You're not the first guy who's ever went through the torment of wanting to be with an ex-girlfriend. Most guys go through this to one extent or another.

If this is the first time you've ever gone through a break-up, well, give it a little more time. See if you really do want to get her back. If your just lonely and just want someone to have fun with, then get back out there and start dating again. But if she's really gotten under your skin and you KNOW that you want to be with her, then here are some suggestions to help you.

1. Analyze how the break-up came about. There's some things to look for: is there someone else, was there a major change happening in her life, did she get bored, do you drive her crazy? Set down and make a chart with these four areas as the headings of columns, then under each area write down the answers. Be completely honest with yourself. This type of assessment will show you some things about yourself that you may have never considered.

2. Decide to change. No one makes a change to their habits or character easily. It takes being honest with yourself and taking responsibility for your own actions. Although the break-up may be the catalyst for the self-examination, the desire to change has to be for you, not her.

This may sound absurd; you may want her to know that you changed for her. But the bottom line is, if you make changes in your life just to get her back, those changes won't last. If you do this for her alone, once you have an argument, the determination to keep that change will go right out the door. And so will she.

On top of everything, this type of 'change' would be a lie. More importantly, it would be lying to yourself. That's very dangerous territory. It's better to lose the love of your life than to lie to yourself and lose you.

Now, having said all that, the decision to change for the right reasons, you want to become a better person for you, is one of the most challenging, satisfying endeavors you can ever make.

3. Begin to date other women. The purpose of this move is to let your ex-girlfriend know that you aren't going to die without her. When she see's you dating others she may have second thoughts about not being with you herself.

4. Become a friend to her. Friendship is the basis for any great relationship. Along with that, if you present yourself as her friend, she will be able to see the results of the changes that you have made for yourself. She'll notice that you've become a different person. If she's at all interested in you, she'll make a comment about that change at some future point.

5. When the time comes where she asks about the changes you've made, set down with her and tell her what you've done. Tell her that the changes were done because you couldn't stand to be without her, but they were for you. If she really wants you back, this will make her happy.

Good luck!

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How to Make Your Pick Up Techniques Automatic

Picking up a woman isn't difficult at all if you'll do one thing...train yourself to use your pick up techniques automatically. It's not hard. You just have to be consistent at it. Every time. Everywhere.

Every time you see an attractive woman, approach her. Make her smile and giggle. Maybe even blush. Stroke her ego and make her feel the admiration your have for her beauty. Later on, she may do some stroking of her own.

Everywhere you find girls that are interesting make sure you have a conversation with them. Find out what they think. Find out what they like. Find out what turns them on. Information is power, man. You've just found out what key will turn their engines on. Gentlemen, start those engines.

Every time you talk with a woman, flirt with her. Flirting automatically should be a part of your dating arsenal. If you see a hot woman you want to meet, set your sites by looking her in the eye from a distance. Take aim when you walk up and introduce yourself and start talking. Gently start squeezing the trigger when you get her to laughing and playing little sexual jokes with you. Firing that weapon is the easy part. She'll surrender unconditionally.

Automatically ask for her phone number, email, or get a date. When talk is flowing, you get going. She is receptive to talking with you, so get her to give you some of her info. Set a time for giving her a call so you can talk some more. This should be as natural as breathing. Heavy breathing.

Automatically, every time, and everywhere when a woman shows signs of attraction to you, kiss her. Attraction is the spark that lights the fire of intimacy. It doesn't need to be a searing kiss to turn her on. That gentle whisper of a kiss on her lips will make her so hot she won't be able to concentrate on anything else.

Use these techniques. Every time. Everywhere. Automatically.

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5 Rules For Dating Multiple Women

Dating multiple women can seem like a fantasy come true for most men. Someone different for every night of the week. Or maybe it's blondes on Friday night, brunettes on Saturdays, and a redhead to cap off the weekend. Whatever your situation is, if you date multiple women it's a lot of fun. And a lot of work.

Here are five simple rules for keeping track so you don't find yourself in hot water.

1. Be honest about your dating habits. True, some girls won't like that. But a lot of girls respect that type of honesty. Besides, you may not be the only one in her life, either.

2. Have control of your schedule. Keeping an eye on the calendar is essential if you want to date several women at one time. After all, you like all of these women. You wouldn't want to hurt them or make them angry by standing them up on a date night.
3. Have specific rules for the type of women you date. I don't mean just how they look, but how they act. If you have a woman that becomes possessive, or controlling of your time, it's time to cut the relationship off.
4. Give them the respect they deserve. Because you've been honest up front about your dating habits, make sure that you give them the best time they can have while your with them. Make your time with her something that she will look forward to.

5. Keep finding new girls. When you're dating multiple women, you're in the most casual of relationships. There will be girls that no longer want this type of relationship and will leave your life. And that's OK. You don't want them to be unhappy and begin to make demands on you that you don't want to fulfill. So, keep your eyes open when you go places to look for other women that interest you.

Let's face it. Women are everywhere; there's no shortage. Just do what you know how to do so well.

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5 Quick Tips To Meeting Younger Women

Well, here you are, after all these years of being with one woman, starting to date again. Or perhaps you've been so intent on your career that you haven't had the time to date much. Whatever the reason is, the desire is the same. To begin to date again.

But you've been looking around and find that you want to date a younger woman. Hey, go for it! Just understand that there's a difference on how to approach and date a younger woman. Take the time to create a plan for the woman who is 18 to 24 years of age.

1. The best place, hands down, to meet a younger woman is at her job. She is the most at ease with others here. If she works in a retail business, she'll be talking with a lot of people that she doesn't know, so approaching her will be as easy as making a purchase.

Other places to meet younger women are where most younger adults congregate. There are numerous coffee shops, bookstores, bars and nightclubs that appeal to younger people and usually have younger women working in their employ.

2. Younger women are looking for someone to treat them with the respect of a mature adult. Not a boy. Most of the guys she knows that are her age are still catching up to her on a mental and emotional level. Definitely not her father. But someone who can validate that she is an adult and, as such, is a person worth knowing for who she is. This is very attractive to a woman of this age group.

3. Women this age find a person who acts with confidence, good self-esteem, and a mature, positive attitude, very attractive. They simply wanted to be with someone who acts the way they want to be treated. Build on this aspect of who you are instead of trying to impress her with things.

4. Take the time to build a rapport with her in conversation. Don't ask her out the first time around. A couple of weeks to build some relationship areas in conversation will be much more beneficial in the long run. This particular time is for building a friendship first. Make sure that you are enjoyable to be around. Be funny, but not silly.

Then, ask her out for a cup of coffee, a bite of lunch; something light and casual. Light and casual are the keys at this time.

5. Once you have gotten a date with her, continue to be lighthearted and relaxed. Keep the atmosphere relaxed. However, you can start to be a little more personal. Look her in the eyes deeply. Check out her smile. Touch her hand while sitting across from her. She'll be the message very quickly. And will likely return the favor.

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Powerful Techniques To Streamline Your Confidence Around Women

Developing superior confidence with women is not as hard as it seems. Confidence is a learned skill, not an automatic attribute. It has to be grown like anything that is of any value. Let's to some of the more obvious areas of confidence.

This first thing is a lot easier than expected. For almost everyone, the first part of gaining confidence is to develop a positive mindset. When you learn to like yourself and think that what you say has merit, then you are well on your way. The positive mindset looks at all sides of an issue, then thinks on the most positive solution or attribute of that issue.

Confidence has to be practiced. No one plays the piano well without practicing. It's the same with confidence. Look in the mirror every day and say 'Good morning!! It's going to be a great day today." Then keep saying this to yourself through out the day. Even if you have a crummy day, just remind yourself that it's a great day. I know that this may be difficult at first, but it get easier and easier as time goes

Next, start talking. Don't talk with just women, but talk with everyone. Talk about the weather, the football season, work. As soon as the snow clears, talk about going out for a walk with a friend, male or female. No radio or television. Just the sweet sounds of conversation. Find out what people like and dislike, what make's them happy. Pay attention to what they say about themselves, then remember it for another conversation at another time.

Lastly, be charming. Women like to be treated with gentleness, kindness, and deference. That's what being charming is all about. Manners do count. So does being fun. Together they are dynamite with the ladies.

Put all these elements together and you will be a magnetic, fun person to be around.

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What Is A Boyfriend Destroyer and How To Use Them

Most guys go through this at least once in their lives. They meet this really amazing woman at work, or when they're out with friends. Just to find out that she has a boyfriend in her life. Maybe not this exact scenario, but something similar.

She likes you as a friend. You know what? That's cool. It's ok to be her friend and date other women. But if you want to take the relationship further than just friendship, then read on for a few suggestions to help her leave the other guy and want to be with you.

Analyze the relationship: Look at everything. What does she like about him in particular? Is he funny? Is the relationship well established? Does he have a good job or some wealth? Ask yourself anything that you think might be important in their relationship. Now, look at your relationship with her. What do you have to offer her? What does she have to offer you? Be honest with yourself if your not sure the relationship with her would be worth the work.

Don't bring him up in conversation: When she and you are together, don't mention anything about him. Keep your conversation between her and you alone. This is about establishing conversational intimacy where you both share things of interest. It's a starting point.

Don't criticize him: At some point she will bring him into the conversation, citing his opinion, talking about what he's accomplished, etc. When this happens listen openly. What your doing is making yourself more desirable to her, not trashing her current SO. Criticizing him will simply make her come to his defense, which will strengthen her bond to him. You don't want that to happen.

Talk about him when she talks about him: Sometimes she will bring him up in conversation and want to talk about things he's involved in. Or she may want to talk about their problems with someone. When that happens listen to her and give your true opinions about him, but only if she asks. Use these moments to build trust.

Take a long look at yourself: Look at what kind of boyfriend you would make for her. If you want her to leave this guy, you need to have something that makes leaving him worth the effort. Hone your manners, looks, anything that makes you look better. Remember that women love a great smile and a guy that can make them laugh. Build these skills up and continue being her friend until you see the moment when you can begin flirting and making your presence known.

Good Luck!

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Getting Her Away From Her Friends

This sounds like something that's going to get you into all sorts of trouble, but, don't worry. This is just a way to get to the object of your attraction, that one woman.

Now, you've been working with groups of women in getting comfortable talking with them and learning what they like, and letting them get to know you. Now it's time to make your move to get to the woman that you want to be with.

The term 'isolating' is about the techniques used to get a woman away from her group of friends so you can talk with her. Women are social creatures which will sometimes run in groups. When this happens a woman will be less inclined to talk with you one-to-one. Therefore, you need to have a way to get the woman you want to talk with away from her friends, but in such a way that she remains open.

Check to see if she is attracted to you. Does she make eye contact? Does she smile at you a lot? Does she say things with her eyes? If she doesn't look interested, well, move on. But if she is, here's what you do next:

While your talking with the group, start asking questions to her alone. Continue talking with just her and her friends will notice that you're both into a private conversation. When you see them noticing, then say to your lady that you want to show her something. Before she can answer, ask her friends if you can take her with you for a moment, but you'll be right back.

This is a great technique because you satisfy the needs of the woman to be independent, but still lets the group know that they're important, too. You're taking care of all the girls.

Now that you've gotten her alone with you, build the attraction and rapport. Get her number and make a date. Then when you deliver her back to the group, they'll want to hear all the details from their friend. You'll know you did well when you hear the giggles coming from them.

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Pre-Date MUST Do's ... No I Don't Mean That!

What You Must Do Before Every Date

How many times has this happened to you? "Oh boy, I'm goin' out with ___ tonight. I'm so excited I can't hardly stand it. Does my hair look alright? Did I get a clean shave? Do I smell OK? Oh my God! I've got a stain on my best slacks!" By the time you go through this you're sweaty and so nervous that you jump at every little thing that happens. This all culminates at her front door when you go to pick her up. Not good.

No one needs this level of anxiety; it's hard on the heart, blood pressure, liver, kidney, not to mention sweat glands. However, I have some good news. There's a way to curb this anxiousness. And it's free!

Cardiovascular exercise before each date. I know, this is almost too simple. But, it works. At least 30 minutes of cardio before each date will decrease the anxiety, lower the heart rate and blood pressure, help rid the body of extra weight from water, increase lung capacity. Along with these, cardio releases endorphins into your system that help you to be more positive all night long.

If you exercise late in the afternoon you will be ...
more relaxed
in a better mood
look toned
be trimmer for your date
have a release of pheromones

As with any exercise, start out slow and increase gradually until your heart rate is at a good clip, about 120 bpm. If you practice this on a regular basis as well as before dates, you'll see a decrease in your waistline and a general upswing in your mood.

Sometime the simplest solutions are the best. Do this before every date, and especially after a night out where you've gone out with friends to scope out a new bar.

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3 Steps To Successful Body Language When Approaching Women During The Daytime

Approach Women with the Right Kind of Body Language

Your body language can say a lot about you. People can tell if you're happy, sad, bored, in pain, excited, tense, etc. by what your body language is saying. The body language you have when approaching women is the first thing they see and will make you or break you.

There are three rules to remember about your body language: 1) be friendly and approachable, 2) sideways facing for approach, and 3) be relaxed.

1) be friendly and approachable - if your posture is rigid, your arms crossed, and your shoulders are tensed up, and your jaw is locked, you look anxious and possibly angry. Try this posture: leaning back on a rail or wall, your arms are down to your sides, your head is up and your shoulders are relaxed. You have a smile on your face and your shaking your head up and down while you're talking with others. This is a much more open and friendly posture and facial expression.

2) sideways facing for approach - when coming up to meet a woman avoid coming directly in front of her. This type of approach is too direct and can make a woman feel aggressed. Approach her slightly on the side. Not too far back where she can't see you, but not directly in front of her. This gives her the option of turning to you to give you her full attention, or, stay sideways to you to assess you a bit. This give her a bit of control when meeting you and the first conversation.

3) be relaxed - remain relaxed in your posture and attitude. Yes, your attitude is part of your body language. Smile, move your arms and hands freely. Move your eyes around her face from time to time. This will be more natural and friendly, putting her at ease.

If you follow these three rules for body language when you go out to meet anyone, anywhere. You'll find that this is easy, quick, and friendly.

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