Question From A Member - Bookstore Approaches?

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Question From A Member
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Hi Alex

Just to let you know that I've had some success after watching
your videos. On Saturday I pulled a french girl wearing
headphones in a book store. Happy Days!!!

Started off with your joke about knowing how the book ended, then
asked for advice about a book for a female friend. After a bit
of chit chat went for a coffee with her. Everything went well.
To cut a long story short I'm taking her to a cocktail bar on
Thursday.

I've got a couple of questions though

Assuming everything goes well on Thursday, is it a good idea to
text her afterward. If so, should I say that I had a good
time/want to see her again, or do you have a "killer" line that
you could give me to make her want date number 3. What are your
thoughts?

When the instant date came to an end, I didn't lock down the next
date I just got the number, - which I kicked myself for later,
although I seem to have gotten away with it this time. I know
you guys say get the date, not the number and I understand the
logic of that.

However, previous wisdom has said, never ask for the next date
when you're on a date. So, whats the best way to make sure that
an instant date is followed by a another one?

Finally, just out of interest did anything come from that record
store girl who worked in a bar. To be honest from my own
experience she looked like she had "flake" written all over her.

Thanks for your time

Mark

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My Response
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Great work Mark on the hottie at the bookstore! When I first
started meeting women there it felt weird but eventually after a
few approaches it doesn't seem so strange anymore and why should it?
You're making women laugh and smile!

You're a fun guy and you're adding value to their day so they
should really be welcoming you with open arms and a big kiss.

Onto your questions ...

Rather than text her you should call her. If you've been on two
dates then calling seems always the best thing to do. It's easier
to convey emotions, display personality and organize another
date when she's hearing your voice. My rule of thumb is only text
if you have to do.

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What To Say When You Call
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When you call her always start by playfully teasing her or playing
a silly game (this sets a fun mood):

"Hey you, I was really shocked on our last meet up, I realized
afterward that you were checking out my man boobs the entire time
and it wasn't just a quick glance it was a constant stare, there's
more to me than just a sexy man body, I've a personality too"

or

"Listen I really enjoyed our last meet up, but I feel we're moving
too fast, I know you love me, you're head over heels for me and
you're telling you're friends that I'm 'the one' but I want to
take things slower ... so when do I meet your parents?"

This sets a frame where she's pursuing you and it sets a playful
fun tone to the call. If she plays along then you have a 3rd
date and possibly some more : )


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Setting Up A Date
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You're right on the money there, you don't want to setup a date
when you're on a date as it comes across as needy and clingy.
If she enjoyed herself with you then you won't have to worry
about a 2nd date. It'll just happen naturally.

By the way for guys who are asking what do I say when I call and
she doesn't answer and it goes to voice mail, should you leave a
message? The answer is YES! Always leave a message.

Would you like to know my stock standard message that gets me
a 90% answer rate? No kidding I actually calculated it and it's
90 percent of time the girls calls me back after I leave THIS
message or I call her back a few hours later and they always
answer.

The secret?

I order a pizza. No kidding I actually order a pizza on her voice
mail. "Extra cheese, crusty crusts, no anchovies, you still have
that special deal including garlic bread and coke?, can I get it
delivered by a cute girl with brown hair and blue eyes (basicly
describe her features), and make sure she's wearing short shorts ...
I also heard that if the pizza isn't delivered within 30 minutes
I get it for free .. also the girl comes free as well..."

Then I break character and call her a dork and tell her to call
me back within the hour before I head out to see a friend.

Give it a try if you're game ...

That's all I have time for I hope this helps.

To your success and nothing less!
Your friend,
Alex

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ATTRACTIVE Attitude #1 - Guys who like themselves
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ATTRACTIVE Attitude #2 - Guys who are fun to be around.
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And when I say fun, man, I mean FUN.

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Another great way to be fun is to go PLACES that are fun.

Make a list of all the cool places you can go with her. She'll associate the feelings she experiences WITH YOU. Remember that.
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ATTRACTIVE Attitude #3 - Guys who are confident and go after what they want.
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This is the one that a lot of guys have a tough time with.

"What is 'confident'?" they ask.

Confidence is simply your willingness to be who you are with no regrets, guilt, or anxiety. You don't care what other people think. You're validated from within.

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